PinnedPublished inHuman PartsAshes, Ashes, EverywhereOn losing, and finding, my sonDec 15, 202013Dec 15, 202013
Published inHuman PartsLosing His Necklace Feels Like Losing My Son All Over AgainI lost my son to suicide. Now I’ve lost the necklace I got to remember him.Aug 2, 202210Aug 2, 202210
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The Futility — and Hope — of Magical ThinkingCanceling the holidays is an act of hope, not fear.Nov 29, 20201Nov 29, 20201
Leave the House; Keep the MemoriesDo houses remember us after we move out of them?Sep 20, 20204Sep 20, 20204
Don’t Remember How They Died; Remember How They LivedWhen someone dies, we must never forget that there is more to their story than the manner of their death. I forgot that. But I remember…May 2, 20207May 2, 20207
We’re All Sailors on the Sea of GriefGrief is a natural reaction that we all experience. It is not a competition.Apr 23, 20201Apr 23, 20201
I Lost My Son; I Wanted My GrandmotherMy grandmother had a special relationship with my Ben… In the deepest well of grief, they are there togetherMar 20, 20203Mar 20, 20203
Published inHuman PartsMy Son Died by Suicide, and I Don’t Know WhyDon’t focus on ‘why.’ Focus on why he didn’t ask for help.Jan 1, 202062Jan 1, 202062
